What were your strategies for
getting acquainted with the people and the culture? (1500 character
limit)
One of my
strategies was to accept every opportunity that presented itself to me. In that sense, when I arrived I had a
mix of people and activities to try and see what I liked or see who I ended up
getting along with. Another
strategy was to try everything at least once. A lot of the food and customs I am not
totally comfortable or familiar with, but I would always at least try them. Usually the people appreciated that
you would at least try something, and if you did not like it afterward, they
were more accepting. I have
to often push myself to transcend boundaries and do things outside of my
comfort zone in that sense, as well.
What kind of changes did you make
in order to adjust to the local culture? (1500 character limit) *
I had to change some of my
routines and habits in order to adjust effectively to the culture. I usually eat dinner around 6 or seven
and go to bed by 10 or 11 and I like to get up pretty early. However, people here eat dinner a lot
later, go to bed a lot later and sometimes get up early, but it is totally
normal to go out literally all night and sleep all day during the weekend. I also have had to push myself to do a
lot of activities outside of my comfort zone, or even inside my comfort zone, I
have been in uncomfortable situations due to misunderstandings in language or
cultural differences. Therefore,
I have really had to learn to rapidly adapt to situations and express and
explain myself a lot better in Spanish.
What types of safety issues were
prevalent in the country (problems with diet, pollution, crime, etc.) and what
safety precautions would you recommend? (1500 character limit) *
There has not been a time when I
felt thoroughly unsafe here so far. However,
I have been trying to take the general precautions anyone should take in any
large or foreign city. For
example, I do not generally walk anywhere alone at night, I either take a taxi
or walk with a group of people. I do not carry more money than I need at any
one time, and I try to keep my money and valuables on my person instead of in
my purse or backpack. I do
not take my laptop (or really any larger technological devices) places more
than absolute necessary. Also,
I do not take my real passport really anywhere unless it is absolutely
necessary. Most of these
recommendations are pretty general and you should be fine if you use common
sense. For example, I try
to use my gut instinct a lot and if something, someone, or somewhere is making
me uncomfortable or beginning to not feel safe, I try to extract myself from
the situation.
Please comment on other aspects of
your social and cultural adjustment. (1500 character limit) *
A few things that seem to have
really helped me cope with some of the social and culture shock that is almost
inevitable are simply doing things for myself. It is pretty easy to get overwhelmed
by the amount of new and unfamiliar things, and it is important to remember to
take time for yourself. For
example, I have started writing more during my time here because it seems like
putting my own feelings and experiences into words helps me to better
understand them myself. In
addition, it is necessary to find your own ways of releasing stress and
frustration. Sometimes, I
need to go for a long run along the river or ocean shore and listen to
something like Taylor Swift until my brain and body simply run out of steam. Sometimes, I need to go to a cafe, get
a coffee, and read Harry Potter for an hour or two. I have found that these things help me
renew my sense of self and purpose here. You have to find a few vices that
simply help you get through the day to day grind and renew your perspective.
In what areas have you found IIE,
the U.S. Department of State, U.S. Embassy personnel and/or the Fulbright
Commission especially helpful? What areas need additional attention? What
improvements would you suggest? (3000 character limit) *
The Fulbright Commission in
Uruguay has been helpful, caring, and wonderful whenever I have asked for help,
needed something, or had questions or concerns. Patricia Vargas has been invaluable
with any and all information I could have wished to know. However, it is evident that she has
many commitments above and beyond simply overseeing our specific part of the
program. It would be more
helpful if she were able to commit slightly more time to our program. For example, it would be helpful to
have individual meetings with her (or someone in the program) at the beginning,
middle, and end of the program to talk about the individual goals you hope to
achieve when you arrive, how you are progressing along the way, and how well
you think you achieved them at the end. We
gave a short presentation about our goals upon arrival and the ETA conference
halfway, but they lacked time for logistical planning. The impression I get is that there is
a support system for those who desperately need it, and while we are welcome to
consult with the commission at any point, we are supposed to figure out pretty
much everything on our own. It
seems like it would be more effective to have a kind of checks and balances
system in place to better support the program and ensure we are doing what we
have been placed here to do.
On another note, I would like to
have more contact with the Embassy and IIE. I have not had contact with anyone in
IIE since I have been here (and in all honesty, I did not even know we had that
option until I read this question, and I do not have the slightest idea who to
contact). We had part of
our orientation at the Embassy, which was great. Afterward, I tried to set up a meeting
with someone at the Embassy to learn more about the way it works, the resources
available, potential careers, and to possibly make more contacts in Uruguay. However, I have so far been unable to
do so due to either a lack of communication on their part or a misunderstanding
of the system on my part. I
do hope to make some contacts and meet with someone before the end of my grant
period, but the only person at the embassy who has proven to be helpful so far
was an intern we met during orientation in March and she left shortly afterward. In conclusion, while I do believe the
program has succeeded on many levels, I think being provided with effective
contacts and support system (at least to check in with) would be extremely
beneficial to the efficiency and productivity of future grantees.
After visiting you and now reading this I relate to your experiences. I do hope someone reads this and attends to your questions & concerns as I think they are valid and worthy of a response. I can't wait to hear more--keep posting!
ReplyDeleteLove you lots,
Miss you more!
~jo
Thanks!! I hope someone does, too. The entire evaluation is submitted directly to the Fulbright Commission in New York (!!) this was only a small part of it... so hopefully they take some of it into regard.
ReplyDeleteLove you, miss you, and I will keep posting! <3